It’s only natural for everyone, as a normal human being to feel belonged and cherished by a person. It is everyone’s hope to get married and live a happy life with their partners. And the only solution to legalize the relationship is by marriage, or if you are not conventional cohabitating is yet a preferred option.
However for now it is marriage talk.
Nothing else appears on my newsfeed but the desperate calls from the daughters of Eve who longs for men with penises that will fit their vagina perfectly, and “lead them as a better person”-so they say. “I am seeking my imam” crap is everywhere and it seems that these horny girls are trying to mask their desperation under the “imam” talk.
These self-denial posts are nauseating and I can’t handle more of these anymore, so if you’re that horny, let the fingers do the talking. Seriously girls. And those popular ustazs in Malaysia seems to have brainwashed these girls to find their man at such young age and build a life, even without security.
And marrying at such young age? I have no objection for girls because it is the right age for reproducing healthy children. I remember correctly that my late grandmother was wedded in the teen years.
But this era where finance, job, and wealth are life saviour, marrying and reproducing falls on non-priority. To establish a secured life with a good job, income, shelter and other convenience is more important than your sex life.
To the people who says, marriage will make your life better, well its all bullshit.
Marriage is when you take a person in your life and share their bullshits, not to mention dealing with your own bullshits too.
Not to mention, you have to consider all the dowry craps for the lady. I heard recently, that it has become a trend in Malaysia to marry a girl with such small offerings. Oh come on, have you no shame? Have you no pride? And for the lady, you really want to marry in such attitude? I can’t think of any reasonable parents, with sound mind to let their precious daughters marry in deprivation.
To be honest I prefer a no-string life, I could go anywhere with anyone without that dreadful guilty feeling. Life is good.
Nonetheless, your life is all yours. All I’m saying is take it or leave it. As you like it.
