Loving The Difference

When it comes to solid and stable relationship, acknowledging each other's differences is central. Let say, the girl  dislikes sweet food and the guy is ailurophobic- fear of cats. hahah!! very funny for a guy getting unnerved and pesky with the presence of a cat, but sometimes I find it it cute too.

Love can taste bitter, you still love it, though!

I have a friend that suffers from cat fears, and everyone in the class can't stop teasing him- in the dining hall especially. For someone who loathe furry things to interfere the most luxurious moments on earth ( of course digging on food ) they'll get completely distressed. For us who have no such phobia, it's a scene to look forward- suddenly a shriek in the dining hall; a loud, piercing cry, and it's a guy! 

this one speaks for itself, clearly.

Such small things might not be a concern for anybody, but for somebody who's committed to a relationship with my friend should be sensitive, even to this dirtiest secret. 


And it's very disappointing when a relationship ends because of incompatibility( so they say ) since they can't match the chemistry. They can't help but get sick of each other's differences. Right now they are seeking the merit that match social expectation, yet a while ago, all those craps are all out of the window. Why now?

-perhaps a very good idea to express the feeling, and mine, I'll use the character from 'the lion king'

If a girl wants a boy who complements with her list-of-my-future-husband-characters, trust me, that girl won't get married forever. Even Blair is attracted to notorious, women-boozing Chuck despite her diary of the perfect gentleman. Yes, Nate's reputation accords well with her list, but it seems that too much perfection disturbs a happy picture. There was no 'firework', not even 'spark' in their love affair.


So, for girls who still in your quest for prince charming, perhaps one day your heart will embrace the guy that you used to despise, because of the character. But trust me, if you can love the differences, you'll love him forever. Besides, who wants a typical guy right??


Oh, and I'm not typical either. Take me while I'm still available. hahahahah!!